English, Spanish, German

Let’s start with the basics, I am involved in an open marriage (I won't date anyone who hasn't met my wife). I don’t do one-night stands, but I am not really looking for forever either. I am very rarely attracted to anyone, so I hope to find several friends in hopes that one might develop into something more. I don’t do the “dating” ritual because in my opinion that is no way to get to know someone. I would much rather just hang out with someone and get to know them as friends than to worry about which “base” I might get to tonight. Once the “hormones” take over all sincerity is lost.

I am a very intelligent and very down to earth guy. I have a unique background that gives me a broad perspective on life. My personality borders between INTJ and INFJ (this is the most objective description of my personality I can give) As such I want a girl who is very open-minded and intelligent, a woman who will not quickly be overwhelmed. I need someone who is mature in thought and able to communicate openly and truthfully about anything.

I ride a motorcycle to work everyday. (A Honda PC800) I like to play chess and am pretty good at it (not great though, I went to a tournament once and was decimated). I was in the Army for 7 years (during the first Gulf War). I have worked as a sawmill hand, a warehouseman, a salesman, a machinist, and a repairman. I am now working as an experimental researcher in Nuclear Astro-Physics. (We study the mechanisms behind Nuclear reactions that take place in the stars)
I don't like reading between the lines, so say what you mean and don't worry about me misinterpreting it. I am very good at reading people but I don't like doing it. Whatever you do, don't try to be "nice" to me, lay it all out in the open (I am big boy I can take it). I always try to speak the truth; if you ask me a question I will give you a truthful answer or nothing at all. (So if you don't want to know don't ask)

Other stuff about me;
My favorite Romantic comedy is "50 First Dates"; I tear up every time I watch it.

My favorite Book is "Stranger in a Strange Land" -Robert Heinlein, followed closely by anything from Douglas Adams.

I have a knack for invention, if you name a function, I will give you a design that will do it.

I am a large physically powerful man with a very soft and gentle disposition. I am a big Teddy Bear, so to speak.

I genuinely care for everyone I meet, but I am almost impossible to take advantage of. I solve people’s problems, not by giving them what they ask for, but by giving them what they need.

I don't get angry but I can get hurt. I value Mercy and Forgiveness over Vengeance and "Justice". And I believe that all people have some decency within them.

Capricorn

Heavyset

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Yes - At Home

Not Sure

Smile

Visible Tattoo

Brown

Cat

University Degree

Part-time

Research / Science / Engineering

Nuclear Physicist

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone, With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Quiet One

Shy, Friendly, Comedic, Strange

Learning, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Camping, Playing Cards, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Playing Video Games

Just a chance to hang out somewhere quiet and talk. I despise the dating ritual because you don't really get a chance to know the person.

To fly a plane, better yet to fly a spacecraft. (I mean if your going to wish, wish big)

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Perfect, A Flirt

Other

Never

Liberal

Make the world a better place. Make my mark in history.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance

Rock, Pop

Humor, Instructional, Philosophy, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

Good conversation and a few beers with close friends.

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I want a friend that I can talk to and bounce ideas around without going way over their heads. I want someone who will enjoy a clever debate without getting upset or defensive. I want someone who is open-minded and trustworthy that I can talk to and enjoy their company.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Intimate